How many time must it be repeated or how obvious must it be to make known to a gal that she's important and priority is given to her before she can understand what important and priority really means? It takes more than chances to propose a date; it needs courage and sacrifices as well. When a date has been proposed, the guy have already gone through a first brain storming session to see if an outing can be arrange; whether reason, the date, time & location is feasible. All other outings or usual programmes have to be push aside for this particular agreeable date or even time slot. When 'Yes' or 'Ok' came out from the gal's mouth; it's an indecent legal agreement that will imprint in a guy's head that the date is fixed and further follow up will take place. The action of planning proceed with much sensitivity to make sure there's minimal possibility of a boring or negative outing. Every minute passed will raise the excitement from within the guy's heart.

But with unforseen circumstances there's always a chance that a gal will change her mind last minute abt going for the agreed date. Some with a fair reason and further arrangement or amendment of the event for the date can be compromised; others with excuses that are just simply ridiculous, e.g. dating another guy who dated her last minute or feels that the guy has a too tied up schedule and assume that the date is cancelled without even having the slightest thought of reconfirming with him. It just doesn't occur to her that effort will be put in for her, whatever it will takes to turn up for the date which will just go down the dsrain in vain. Devastation falls on the guy but what can he say? Life is as such, nobody bother to think twice for the effort that were put in for anything that's happening around them these days. And being a gal, she has all the rights to reject an outing, even at the very last minute; even if it was upfront being agreed upon. The guy just have to accept bad luck, swing his mood from great excitment to total dissappointment or worse. It may be a test for his sincerity and patience but how many times can a man goes through unexpected last moment adverse facts; it may also cause a man to go berserk and do stupid things, but i guess nobody cares until things really happened. And for all that had happened, is all just b'cos of a simple positive word 'Yes' or 'Ok' from an uncertain heart.