When sadness or bad feeling overwhelm a person, e best matter to overcome it may be to get over by bypassing it. The more u tink abt a negative feelings, the more the intensity of it grows. The more u wanna stop thinkin of it, the more u tink abt it. A comment by 'Ole' (who is it, I wish to know too) saying, 'Don't hate, Make love. Living is a beautiful thing, live in peace and harmony.' I agrees, for tt's my belief in life too. Love overcome everything. Love itself is the ultimate solution to all matters in life. If u have someone to tok abt life, to love, to hug, to kiss, to make love wif; when love in life is sufficient, what's the issue of feeling sad or bad? If u have the chance to love, treasure it and not take it for granted. Wilfulness in one is nature's curse but line has to be drawn somewhere & self-discipline have to be put into action. If u have love, live a life happily focusing on it. What's the worst thing tt can happen? A quarrel? Which there after strenghthen the relationship; a quarrel, may be a love making gesture in disguise afterall. There'll be no space for feelings of negativity but love for one who has someone to love... But what if u've no one to love, force love out of someone? Anyway no relationship can sail smoothly without going thru obstacles, so might as well start one tt's full of obstacles. Find somebody available and start thinking things can be worked out if u get it started? Yah, maybe it will, but how much time & patience do one have? If it works out, good for u. Though feeling cannot be forced, in fact may sound a bit naive in the first place; but feeling does grow over time. As long as there's no negative feelin between 2 parties in the beginning, there's always the possibility of fallin in love after u're in a relationship... it's easy to voice out a suggestion, a solution to a problem, but putting words into actions is never easy. There'll always be conflict between the mentaility from the mind against the emotions in the heart. But at least for those who have love, the tunnel to e light ahead is clear, may all ends well for u...