Many times in a relationship, quarrel happens. Many hate them but i guess it's jus unavoidable for a relationship to last. Some tries to avoid quarrel by creating lies or hiding things up, i believe tt's not the right way nor the healthy way... Quarrel is jus a form of communication between two parties in hope for a resolution to living a better life, which means it's healthy to have it. It should be faced with truthfulness; all thoughts from both parties should be poured out to be puzzled into one big picture. It's jus a way of working things out.

No two different people can share the same thoughts but through speaking up how one feels over a matter helps to make the other party aware that there's the existance of looking at a matter in another way. With some effort of giving in and remembering how the other party may react in similar scenario can reduce the chances of quarelling or at least reduce the intensity of a quarrel in the future. So learn to understand it's for good, don't fear from doing it but learn from it. Perhaps a big hug and some kisses will do the trick of simmering down from a quarrel...